A Little Reflection… Two Months Since ‘Growing Pains’

It’s been two months since Growing Pains—my debut headliner at Can You Keep A Secret—and life’s been a whirlwind ever since! I’ve only just now had a moment to sit down and take it all in. And honestly, I’m still pinching myself.

If you’d told me 12 months ago that I’d be playing a sold-out gig, fronting a band, and sharing a full set of original music—I would’ve laughed awkwardly and changed the subject.😅

For so long, I told myself I wasn’t good enough. I thought I had to wait around for someone else to give me permission… or a chance.

But over the past year, I’ve been slowly building trust in myself again. I’ve started loving my voice, owning my creativity, and creating my own opportunities. A huge part of that growth has come from the beautiful support of Mel Lathouras and the Fearless Singer community.💛

Growing Pains started as a little idea I scribbled down late last year—a way to share the stories I’ve held close for so long. Putting this show together taught me that I’m capable of more than I realised. And that little Clare (the one who used to dream of this stuff) would be so proud.

One of the biggest joys? Meeting and collaborating with some incredibly talented, kind, and generous humans—thank you to Dave McGuire, Peta Wilson, Dr Bob, Kaeja Hope and James Visentin for making the night so special.

And a massive thank you to you—whether you were in the room that night, sent me a message, or have just been quietly cheering me on. Your support means more than you know.

I can’t wait to share more music and magic with you soon!🌟